Finding the person with whom you want to spend your life isn’t easy, but when you have finally found the perfect woman, and plan to spend the rest of your lives together, it is a joyful time in your life.
You may want your wedding to embrace beautiful traditions, with tuxedos, a church wedding, and everyone you know and love in attendance. You may opt for a run to the courthouse followed by a celebration at your favourite restaurant. Or perhaps you’ve always dreamed of a destination vacation, with you, your betrothed and your families on a tropical island.
No matter which wedding style you and your betrothed embrace, one thing that must be absolutely spot-on is the engagement ring. This is the piece of jewellery she will wear every day for the rest of her life, so you know it has to be right.
The tradition of engagement rings dates back thousands of years. The historical reasons for using betrothal jewellery were not exactly romantic, but in 1477, the Archduke of Austria used a diamond ring to propose, giving the trinket’s future a whole new direction. After that, rings often derived meaning from their context, such as engraved rings in Europe in the 1700s, and rings intertwining human hair and gemstones in the Victorian era.
As you start looking for a ring, you can be inspired by this history, and buy something that combines your feelings for your future bride with her personality. If you’re not sure where to start, here are some tips for finding the perfect engagement ring for your partner.
Getting the best materials for the ring not only ensures its durability, but shows how much you love your fiancée. The setting and ring materials also need to reflect your future wife’s personal style. The most common materials for the ring itself are platinum, yellow and white gold and sterling silver, but you can also pick something more to your liking, such as rose gold. Some jewellers now combine wood and metal in rings.
You are not limited to diamonds for gems. Rings using rubies, emeralds or even pearls can be fashioned into memorable and one-of-a-kind tokens. However, the diamond is still a top choice for engagement rings. If you’ve had other friends get married, no doubt you’ve heard about the four Cs. The four Cs are how the value of a diamond is assessed. You need to have a good idea of what these are to determine the gem’s value.
Cut is what reflects the diamond’s light, and produces its sparkle. Colour is how white, or free of tints, the diamond is; the whiter, the more expensive. An inclusion is a flaw in the diamond that affects its visual impact. Clarity grades the severity of these inclusions. Finally, carat is how much the diamond weighs.
Now that you have some idea on what’s available, you need to start shopping. Consult your friends who have been through the process for advice. Do some research on prices online to help you figure out what will work on your budget, and to look at design possibilities.
After that, you will be ready to consult a reputable jeweller, such as Winsome Diamonds and Jewellery Limited. The company, run by Jatin Mehta, WFJ, designs and produces engagement rings using state of the art technology. Winsome has a strong commitment to purity of materials and quality, so you are sure to find the right ring at your price point.
Consultation: Yes or no?
One final thought that may be at the back of your mind is whether should consult your fiancée when choosing the ring. On the yes side is the possibility you might pick something she doesn’t like, or that doesn’t fit. Then she’s faced with the choice of telling you, or wearing a ring she doesn’t like for the next 50 years.
You might also consider that as the times have changed, so has taste in jewellery. Since you have such a large range of choices for materials, it certainly affirms your belief in her style if you ask her opinion about design and elements of the ring. You might not get to surprise her, but your collaboration on choosing her dream engagement ring will be appreciated.
If you know your intended would prefer to be surprised, consult her closest friends and family for ideas. She may have anticipated your proposal, and prepped them on what she would like. Take a peek in her jewellery box, and start taking note of the jewellery she wears frequently. Above all, be sure the ring is returnable if you get it wrong!
Now it’s up to you. Have fun, be creative, and find the perfect ring for your bride. Giving her that long-lasting symbol of your love will be one of most wonderful moments in your life.